Vegeterian, it is not saying whether one person enjoy eating meat or

not, rather i have no interest who eats something and no intention to

exhort people to have it. What i am trying to say now is that, say,

Vegeterian, a man who has no interest with women but only enjoys

what he does, i.e his hobbies, works or studying.

Originally the word 'Vegeterian is originated from Japan, i am not sure

how exactly the Japanese coined this word but somehow it transfered

to Korea, as usual. Here it is not important to seek to real origin then

just let's skip this.

At any rate, this recently newly coined word really makes sense to me

although we don't know who made it. The definition for this word, as

mentioned above, is someone(especially for men) who enjoys his

hobbies but have no interest in women, so-called 초식남. We don't say

Vegeterian girl, because the word 'Vegeterian' only fits to men(because

they are alwawys interested in women and like meat - you know what i

mean) They really concentrate on their hobbies and eager to enjoys

their life throughout exciting activities, however, somehow a little bit

strangely, have no interest with women. Well, this dosen't mean they

necessarily don't like women, they may well have opposite-sex friends

but they don't like to develop their relationship from friend to lover.

Reportedly, some Vegeterians have somewhat abhorrence to make a

girlfriend. What i have been saying is not my opinion, it is just what i

heard from online community and 'according to someone channel.'

My opinion on Vegeterian is quite skeptic. As a man and from what i

have heard through last two decade told myself "there is no such a

thing like Vegeterian." Someone can seems to be a Vegeterian but i

can assure you the guy in question is just wittingly hide his mind from

what he had experienced with some girls or on the base of religious

belief. What i want to say is that we men have a very instinct to have a

girl friend - for any reason. And from my personal experience, i have

never met guys who don't like women, admittedly i didn't ask all of

them whether they like women or not, but i can sure. It is impossible

to deny the rule. As Lady GaGa's song saying,

"We are all born this way!!"

Yet, somehow, for some reason, some guys look like as if they are

"Vegeterian." For this, I am not going to contend the case, for i am not

a girl so I don't know their stance and don't know the situation the guy

looks like a Vegeterian. But once more, i can assure you that they are

'carnivorous' as well, whatever they might intended.

Then what about myself, which is really what i am to say??

I, for sure, am not a Vegeterian. But i sometimes think myself i might

seem I am a Vegeterian by someone who i know and even i think

myself a Vegeterian which is contradictory from what i have

already said. The reason why I am saying like aforementioned is that,

I behave myself when I am in a social club as if I am a Vegeterian -just

my own thinking. Men, usually talk as much as he can when they 

encountered a attractive girl, but I, as timid as i couldn't awakened 

yet, so shy, when i met a girl who i think her attractive.

Am I strange? or just a as normal as other guys? I don't know.

I think myself so timid and a so shy boy when i meet a girl, especially

when i meet a girl who i think attractive. Well, there are some words I

can say to her, but most of them are just mundane words that anyone

can say to her. I cannot approach to her as a man, not as a friend. I

just hope that, not myself first, she could step in me first time, then I

can go on. I can't step into her for the first time - is he a man or a just

a shy girl? I don't know.

What I am doing is just revolving around her, like Sun and Earth, as 

both of them cannot approach themselves but only revolving....

Sometimes I am really frustrated about my own characteristic which i

cannot approach. I am not a Vegeterian as you might seem. I, I am

eager to and longing for someday i can afford it.

I will be even more desperate when i recognize my major is semi-

conductor Engineering which there are few girl students and also one

more time frustrated from my campus is in Suwon, not Seoul which

only tough men are walking around.

Do i have to give up the small dream - small but all the people on

Earth longing for? I can't, cannot.